“We waste time looking for the perfect lover, instead of creating the perfect love.” ― Tom Robbins It seems to me that everyone’s got a list of traits they demand from a lover. They want to be loved in a very specific way by a certain someone who has the exact set of qualities they […]
The art of teaching oneself how to be considerate to the other.
Here’s something to note; if human beings have the ability to recognize faults, acknowledge feelings and emotions then it is paramount that they are given the same amount of benefit of doubt especially if and when you’re dealing with the opposite sex. It is no secret that we don’t know the slightest thing about the opposite sex apart from the physical sense of it and that it is important to acknowledge that even though you are going through somethings; they are going through the same in their own way. The difference is how you rise above. This for me is the most important thing.
A while back I was one who gave my opinions to everybody on how things should run and why I am always right and in so doing denying the chance for the next person to be vocal. So in order to let people be who they are without necessarily prodding into their life you can change and just listen then act! Nobody ever died for gaining more or looking at a situation in a different way so it’s not always about you. Think about the next person and eventually you will learn that if you care for somebody’s feelings ultimately somebody will care for you. That’s just the average rule of nature what goes around comes back around.
#thebookoflife.
mercyceci 